The Instant Click

I was watching How I Met Your Mother season 8 episode 7, The Stamp Tramp. 

It's an episode showing Ted interviewing Marshall after his third date with Lily. Marshall said he's falling for Lily but he wasn't sure if this is the right thing because after all, he's only 18. It seems silly to think of the first girl you dated in college as The One. 

This reminds me of how Wayne describes us. 

It took us only 4 days to be aware of the feelings we have for each other. It was on a Wednesday we had our first date, and the following Sunday ended with a kiss on my forehead. 

The feelings were so strong, it felt like we have known each other for decades. We are so similar in many ways. We have the same likes and dislikes, possess the same sense of humour, with the same thoughts on life and issues around us.
We just... clicked.

He said he has never felt like this before, he was so sure he wanted to be with me, nothing could have stopped him.

And finally after a month, we are officially a couple.

There was a time when i was somewhat jealous at how he has wooed other girls longer than a month.

But Wayne helped me to realise that it does not matter. Because most of the relationships consists of this part of journey. But what most relationships do not have is the instant click we had since our first date. 

Just like Klaus said:

"Lebenslanger Schicksalsschatz is not something that develops over time.
 It is something that happens instantaneously. 
It courses through you like the water of a river after a storm, 
filling you and emptying you all at once." 

(How I Met Your Mother, Season 8 Episode 1)

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